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Going backward, I went to bed early and read for a bit. I was freezing again, which seemed to happen when I was tired. I was asleep by midnight.

Before this, I relaxed under my electric blanket in the living room. I had tried to watch the movie version of The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Universe movie, but it was just as terrible as I remembered it, and I turned it off. It was recommended by my Amazon access to cable.

Glenda, Susie’s Aunt for North Carolina, made dinner of scalloped potatoes with ham using the ham leftover from yesterday. We opened a can of my favorite peaches for dessert, but the product inside was not as good as last time, Freestone peaches. I might not buy them anymore, sad; these used to be the best-canned peaches I ever had.

Before dinner, and while it was still sunny and warm, Corwin placed potting soil under all the roses and the rhododendron. I had already done some fertilizer. Unfortunately, two roses bushes are still showing stress, and I hope this will help.

While Corwin did the potting soil, I grabbed a grass seed bag and covered a spot where the apple tree had fallen and killed the lawn. My lawn service was happily edging it now and ignoring it, so I seeded it and removed an old weather station that was also being edged nicely, to my frustration, and dowsed the area with grass seed. I would prefer more grass than dirt.

Before this, Glenda and I were out shopping. We bought a new microwave at Best Buy, selecting a small footprint LG machine. We are pretty happy with the new machine, having used it for making dinner and heating beverages. Reading the manual, Glenda discovered that it includes an Internet-of-Things connection to check its health, which is very nice.

I passed on the larger footprint but the more helpful combination of the toaster oven and microwave available. Some can work with subscription food service to make easy-to-make meals avoiding the GrubHub higher costs for those too busy, ill, or needing more control on their intake.

Before this, we stopped by Ace Hardware to get some gardening stuff. I got the bag of potting soil (used up by Corwin) and lawn seed while Glenda got some work gloves. Glenda picked up this bill. Thanks!

After that, we stopped by Safeway and picked up potatoes for dinner and just a few other items. Aws, a friend of mine was working the DIY checkout and waved.

Before the shopping, we traveled to the Forest Grove Rehab and Care Center at 3900 Pacific Highway, Room 44A in Air Volvo. I have started to avoid the turn from Pacific Highway and instead use the back entrance by turning at the light before the entrance on Pacific Highway. I just fly by the Adventist church, take a right into the local neighborhood, and the back entrance connects to the road. There is no traffic and no risk, but one needs to watch for cars pulling out as the parked cars sometimes block your view.

Susie was in bed when we got to her. But, again, the staff had not gotten Susie up that day. Terry, Susie’s roommate, suggested the facility was too short-staffed to handle Susie. And the staff seemed to be running around a lot, and Pre, the rehab nurse, was running the other wing on Sunday.

Glenda and Susie chatted and then contacted Leta by my iPhone using FaceTime while I wandered and talked to the admin. I wanted them to get a copy of the letter that Susie is moving and updating her DNR information with no changes. Also, Susie finally got her third vaccine for Covid-19, and thus I wanted her VAX card updates. This took some time as everyone was busy on a Sunday early afternoon.

Aside (slight rant): I have asked about the vaccine for months. Finally, Susie got her third shot. I am headed for number four next week (being two weeks out of chemotherapy). Why the home had not done shots earlier is a mystery to me.

Glenda and I decided to have Susie moved to the wheelchair as it was a lovely day, and Susie could use an outing. So the nurse aid got her dressed and in the chair, and Glenda pushed Susie. Off to Pink Spoon for frozen yogurt and other treats!

It is about a block away, a New York City-sized block, but still doable. We found the place busy, and we were the only folks with masks, but, it being a sunny day, nobody stayed inside for long, so I felt safe there. We got there three sets of goodies. We helped Susie between bites of our own frozen goodness; Susie ate about 1/3 of her frozen yogurt. We took one to go for Terry and packed Susie’s remaining goodie for later. When we returned, the nurse aids took Susie’s frozen treat and put it in the freezer for later. I gave Terry the gelato I got for her.

We left Susie in her wheelchair with a kiss and a hug; she did ask to go home–always heartbreaking to hear that, and we told her she would be staying. She was okay with that. The nurses would follow her directions if she wanted to stay up in the chair until dinner in a few hours or rest. I asked them to ask her and follow her directive–they were short-staffed so I needed to be a bit more directive.

Before this, we were at church. We had a guest laity preacher, and Carston also played the clarinet and did one song. So we were there on time, and everyone was happy to see us. We did stop at the Volvo Cave to change after church.

Moving to the morning, I wrote the blog, and Glenda started unloading my big bookcase. I was sleeping into 7AM, and Glenda was still rising with the sun. I had some breakfast and coffee. Lunch was some ham and leftovers.

Aside: Susie will move to Allegiance Senior Care at 9925 SW 82nd Street, just inside Portland mailing, but it is really Tigard in May.

 

I started the day with my alarm waking me. I was not awake before the alarm, so I slept through the night and got a decent sleep. I was fatigued, but I shook that off and started my day. Glenda, Susie’s Aunt from North Carolina, was up with the sunrise, about 6ish. I used to wake up with the first light, but now I sleep through it.

Glenda cleaned up more of the kitchen while I wrote the blog and had breakfast. I had one of the scones we made a few days ago. I will have to make some more soon.

Once the blog was finished, I got showered and dressed, and though I was fatigued, I did not have to rest after all that. I later saw stars and had to lie down for the early evening; in the morning, I was doing fine.

We drove Air Volvo to the new place for Susie that Glenda and I had selected. We cross Beaverton and take Hall Street to avoid 217 (often choked with traffic to reach US 5 and Lake Oswego). Soon we arrived at Allegiance Senior Care at 9925 SW 82nd Street, just inside Portland mailing but is really Tigard. We meet Michelle, the owner, and go over Susie’s medical history and provide some insight into Susie and her condition. I sign the forms and pay the initial $1000 by check. All of this is post-dated to the first of May. Michelle will visit Susie next week and work with her staff to create a care plan for Susie.

We wanted to lock this in for May; this was our first choice, but the facility is not close to home. Without traffic, it is about 30 minutes to trip across Beaverton to get there. I will make it work.

Glenda and I then headed back to the house; I forgot my phone!

We headed to see Susie at Forest Grove Rehab and Care Center at 3900 Pacific Highway, Room 44A. We managed the new electronic check-in system, with both workings to do it right today. Susie was still in bed and had not been up that morning. That was unusual, and it appeared the home was short-staffed again on the weekend, or Susie told them to let her sleep. She will not remember that.

We had a pleasant visit with Susie, and we called Susie’s mother, Leta, on my iPhone via FaceTime. So we had a nice visit with Susie. Susie was sleepy, so we left after the second yawn. Unfortunately, we forgot to take a pic.

Next, we contacted Mariah, a friend of mine and a writer and photographer, for lunch. After a few texts, we settle on The Black Dog in Forest Grove for lunch. At the Grand Lodge–our previously agreed to lunch location, Glenda and I take Air Volvo west on the Pacific Highway and then turn east to get to the food joint. Pacific Highway splits into separate one-way streets two blocks apart, and so you have to do some switch-backs to reach some places on the highway.

We arrive, and Mariah, expecting us to take more time, is rushed to walk over from her apartment in Forest Grove. I have 1/2 of a Ruben sandwich and a light-ish beer–I boxed the other half of the sandwich. A burger for Mariah and the daily special for Glenda, battered fish sliders. All of it was good. We soon depart for home.

I am very fatigued now from the driving and rest and have to rest a bit. So Glenda and I decided to make the ham I bought last week for dinner. Glenda disagrees with my plan of cooking the ham in a glass dish, but we make it work. We cook the ham for two hours at 275F.

While the ham is cooking, we make a short trip to Safeway to get groceries. We are not the only folks masked, and everyone is still practicing social distancing from what I saw. Safeway now offers a Do-It-Yourself checkout and refuses for a while to open more checking as the lines for the two checkers were now five deep. Finally, they relent and open more checking, and we get Aws as our checker.

Aws is about my age and from Iraq and speaks excellent English–I assume he is a refuge, but I never ask. We became friends as I wished him well for Ramadan years ago and asked if he was doing OK. He was a newish checker then, and the lifting and bagging were clearly hard on him without food and much water during Ramadan, but he took it with grace. We have been friends ever since. We missed each other during the lockdown as I ordered groceries online, but we are happy to have survived and glad to see each other now. I look for him when I am checking out at Safeway.

We got a few items back to the house, and Glenda made a salad and sweet potatoes for dinner. We had dinner, and Corwin joined us. I was dizzier and fatigued.

I went to read and lie down and fell asleep and was freezing again. I could not get going as I saw stars and was dizzy, so I slept more. I did not get to putting away much more–my game stuff is in piles ready to be shelved, and Glenda read and went to bed. I was in bed at about 10:30 and was asleep before midnight.

 

I awoke to my alarm having slept through the evening, falling asleep after reading a few pages. I then managed to get going and make coffee and start the blog. Glenda, Susie’s Aunt who came from North Carolina to help, was already up. So I spent the early morning writing. my breakfast was a chocolate croissant that Glenda defrosted and baked and coffee.

Glenda continued to clean the frig and organize the kitchen. She also got out the loppers and removed a few dead bushes. I, meanwhile, finished the blog, published it on WordPress, and then took a shower and dressed.

Aside: According to the stats from WordPress, about 50 people read the blog everyday. Thank you all!

I was tired this Friday, and the dizziness was back. I had overdone it on Thursday and was fatigued. So Glenda and I decided to make it a slower day and visit Susie and then just hang out at the house.

We took Air Volvo to the Forest Grove Rehab and Care Center at 3900 Pacific Highway, Room 44a. While crossing the city of Cornelius to reach the facility, I braked for one stoplight with a bit of abruptness, and a pick-up truck madly swung around Air Volvo at the intersection, ran the light, and sped off without losing too much speed (we were also in a school zone!). I am sure I will not miss the passive-aggressive commuters when we move Susie to Beaverton-Tigard in a few weeks.

After mastering the new unmanned entrance machine, we found Susie in her room. She and her roommate, Terry, were awake. Susie was delighted to see Gleda and me. We brightened the room with a set of tulips from the Tulip Festival that we picked up yesterday.

We called Leta, Susie’s mother, and Susie and she chatted for a while on my iPhone using FaceTime. Glenda stayed and was included in the chat. While that was going on, I checked in with the admin. Susie is approved for rehab, yeah! It will start on Monday. I may still be paying for the room: I would have to check with accounts payable later.

After Susie started to yawn, we left the usual signal that Susie needed a nap. Glenda slept in the car on the way back. Once home, I rested and slept until 5:30.

I made a simple dinner of angel hair pasta with sauce from a jar, Paul Newman’s, with browned ground beef. Glenda made a salad to go with it. Glenda then did the dishes.

I did watch about 1/3 of the news on PBS, The News Hour. However, I turned it off when the discussion changed to politics. Politics in France or the USA are not that interesting to me.

After organizing the board games to be on shelves or at least not on the floor, I tried again to repair my old Apple computer. No, go. It is dead. The cool Other World Computing (OWC) 2TB $350+ drive will not work as it needs a boot from a higher version of the OS to be used. This creates an impossible problem as you need to upgrade to get there, but you can’t upgrade as you have to install the OS first on the drive as it requires a higher OS to work. So I would need to create an OS boot on a USB stick with a higher version of the OS and hope it would boot and then use it to bring the new drive to life. Or buy a used Apple SSD from eBay and see if that will work. All to get back my fav Apple which is no longer supported by Apple. Sorry to say that I will recycle my old fav Apple instead.

Next, I spent hours finding an external drive holder for the SSD I pulled out of the old Apple, but SSD has moved to P12 format. I was hoping to use the SSD for an external drive, but there is no new external drives holder for the older format SSD available at OWC. Thus the SSD is useless too. Apparently, Apple used a non-standard hardware interface, and OWC also did the same. Ugly.

I chatted with Glenda for a while and then went off to bed. I got up for a bit and started the new Doctor Who season with the episode on the Sea Devils. I only watch part of it. The acting and writing were a bit off–more on that when I see the whole thing.

I went back to bed and fell asleep before midnight.

 

 

 

My day started at 6:30 with my iPhone waking me from a dream I don’t remember. I was up and making coffee in a few minutes. I read my emails and started on the blog, which often takes 90 minutes to write. I wrote until about mid-morning. Glenda, Susie’s Aunt, cleaned and organized all morning while I wrote and got ready. The kitchen is cleaner, Glenda also cleared the floors, and we collected another set of books to take to Goodwill.

We headed off before lunch and gave away two boxes full of books when we had Air Volvo make a stop at Goodwill. These are primarily hardcovers and other books Jan’s Paperback would not usually take.

We reached the Forest Grove Rehab and Care Canter, Room 44A, located at 3900 Pacific Highway, with only witnessing a few interesting extra-legal lane changes from our fellow drivers. After passing the screening, we found Susie was sitting up in the wheelchair at the tables near the nurses’ station. She was not happy as she was alone and had been ignored for the morning, but she was delighted to see us.

I left Glenda to talk to Susie while I spoke to the admin folks at the facility. They were sending in the required evaluations for Susie to United Health Care (UHC), so they could do rehab for her. They had completed the paperwork and hoped to get a decision from UHC on Friday. From what I was told by the customer care folks at UHC, we can have one new case of rehab per calendar year, according to UHC. So since our last case was in November, and we went on private pay before the year changed, we can do the same rehab again.

Aside (rant): For those who think your employer should purchase your insurance because they will get a better deal and give you better coverage, please have only one medical emergency per year. That is all you are allowed by most employer-purchased health care plans. Also, ranting, the idea that corporations will operate in the employees’ best interest is inconsistent with the fact that according to all reading I have done, a corporation only owes allegiance to the stockholders.

I returned and called Susie’s mother, Leta, on the iPhone, and they chatted for a while on Facetime. We then found a medical person wanting to evaluate Susie, so we decided it best to leave at that time and not be a distraction. I have found it best for me to be out of the room when they do these evaluations, as Susie then looks to me to answer for her. I also find it nearly impossible to keep my face and body language neutral when she passes or fails a test. I just need to leave.

We headed for the long drive to Woodburn to see the Tulip Festival at the Wooden Shoe Tulip Farm. They were open this year, and the tulips were still good. The tulips start to fade here in Oregon after April. We stopped at Carl’s Jr., had burgers for lunch, and ate them in the car. I then started the two-hour drive, with traffic, to Woodburn.

It is Thursday and the worst day for traffic–all companies with return-to-work office hours have folks there on Thursday, and nobody takes off Thursday. Thus we spent time in stop and go on 217 after crossing back over Beaverton.

We finally broke away from the traffic when we connected to US 5, the main road from Mexico to Canada on the West Coast (much like 95 on the East Coast). In the USA, odd-numbered roads run sort of North to South and even numbers East to West. We then drove, again in some stop-and-go traffic in the city of Woodburn after leaving US 5. We finally found rural Oregon, and when the Cascade Mountains were in clear view, we reached the tulip fields. We were 35 minutes passed our ticketed time, but that was not an issue. You must have a ticket before you reach the Wooden Shoe Tulip Farm, and there are even a few signs with scan codes to buy them before you reach the farm. There is no means to get a ticket at the festival.

We walked the fields and enjoyed the country air and the bright colors. For the festival, and according to the vendors, today would be a great day. There were no winds and no snow or hail. It was raining, and we did hide under one of the tents when the rains hit hard. We took the tractor ride out to the center of the fields instead of walking. It was too far for me still. It was a cloudy day with intermediate rain and Oregon mist, but no winds and side-ways rain.

We purchased a glass of the local white sweet wine; surprisingly, the tulip farm has its own label of wine! Next, we got two sets of flowers, one to take home and another for Susie. I had to replace my catalog of bulbs to purchase; my first was lost when I used the chemical toilet–impossible to recover. Oops.

We returned with less traffic until we hit, again, 217, with stop and go. We got off early and drove across Beaverton to practice what the new commute would be like with Susie must in Tigard off of Hall street. The drive was fine and familiar without the traffic jam.

We reached home and then made dinner. We had one more kit from Blue Apron, and it was aging, so we needed to cook it. So Glenda and I made Sheet Pan Pimento Cheese Chicken, skipping the peppers for Glenda. It was not bad.

Glenda and I rested and chatted, finally heading to bed at about 10:30. I read for a bit but fell asleep for the first time in months before midnight and slept until my alarm.

 

 

Starting with the essential items, Susie was re-evaluated now; I have to cover that cost for this. Susie will now get more services. I have asked the Forest Grove Rehab and Care Center and my insurance, United Health Care, to work together and see if they can get Susie back into the intense rehab program. This program is available at the Forest Grove facility–our original reason for being there. Also, we have selected an adult foster care home for Susie in Tigard, about 9 miles away, that seemed perfect to Glenda, Susie’s Aunt, who is here to help us, and me. Assuming that Susie will pass their intake, we expect she will be moving there sometime in early May. This is about 1/3 cheaper than the nursing home and maybe a comfortable setting for her. And, while not closer, it is on the other side of Beaverton where I often travel and thus seems closer. UHC may cover outpatient services for Susie at the new house. So it was a good day!

Going backward in time, I went to bed after watching the next episode of Moon Knight, which I enjoyed. It was a lost tomb-style adventure with even undead mummies who embalm anyone they catch in the tomb, perfect. A bit scary and then strange; I liked it.

I made scones from a box mix from King Arthur Flour; Glenda wanted a baked good and preferred a scone to cake. It was like old times; I cut the butter into the dry mix using a pastry cutter. Before, I was too weak, and my hands would bruise. No issue, and the scones, Orange Cranberry, were loverly!

After waiting two years, I received the new Kickstarter version of Nemo’s War. I punched the game and put it away. It is a solo game, and I hope to find some time to try it out in the next few days.

Dinner happened before this; I made it from the Blue Apron kit we got. We had ordered 2-person sizing, so Corwin just got a taste (he had already eaten anyway). I made Hoisin Pork and Spicy Rice for dinner. We made it less spice, and it was good.

I forgot to pick up my prescriptions. I am still good for a day.

Before I took a short break, we drove out to Goodwill with all the books and bags of clothing. There is less stuff in the house now. I also moved some underplayed or less well-received games to the garage shelves.

We left for Forest Grove before this, Glenda having cleaned some more of the kitchen and organized a few more things in the morning. We managed the Covid-19 screening at 3900 Pacific Highway and soon were in Susie’s room 44A. Susie was in bed, and Terry, Susie’s roommate, said that Susie did great on the evaluations and would be coming off of pureed foods, excellent! Susie was clearly more tired from all the activity, and we made it a short visit.

Before this, we continued to munch the leftovers for lunch. Then, Glenda cleaned up the house, and I wrote the blog and got ready. I again started at 6:30AM. Sleep was still broken the night before, but I was not exhausted. I was only dizzy a few times all day, better!

On the garden side of things, our apple tree is blooming. This is the one that fell and is now a trunk resting on the ground, with the branches now being sort of the new trunk.

The climbing roses, Wedgwood by David Austin, we planted this year are starting off well.

One of my roses, Cardinal Richelieu, is still stressed. However, the rest of the roses look happy and ready to flower in the next few weeks.