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Day 239: Quiet Sunday with Benedryl

Susie was up about every two to three hours to use the rest room. She did not need my help in the night.

Susie later needed help when getting dressed as she was unable to move. Her right leg just would not move then. She became so weak she was nearly falling. I picked her up and put her on the walker chair as it was nearby. Susie finished getting dressed, and I wheeled her to the living room. She was then OK and moved fine. The stroke damage comes and goes, and that is normal but frustrating.

I cleaned our shower and toilet. I did the dishes, swept some of the floors, and continue to try to make everything safer. We moved Susie’s cedar chest out of the bedroom so she would have more room for her walker.

Today started at about 5:30AM. I had broken out in a rash and got some Benedryl and then slept into 9:30ish. I have broken out again this evening and took some more. It is a reaction to fall and stress. It will pass.

I made hot dogs for lunch using the microwave and made Susie Eggo Waffles with peanut butter. I read and cleaned and helped Susie for the afternoon.

I like this video that describes the Lockdown.

I also talked to the Smiths and we are going to try to do a watching party for Hamilton. Da da da da

We meant Mariah at the local Mexican Restaurant to celebrate the new President with Margaritas and Mexican Food. Our waiter was pleased that we came to celebrate with them. She is happy with the election results. I had a flan too. Susie had trouble walking, she only had ice tea, and I wheeled her to the car. She was able to walk when we got home again.

I finished Seven of Infinities by Aliette de Bodard today. It is a novelette. It was wonderful.

Archana from India, a coworker, called to see how we are. I was glad to hear from her. Archana works for Nike as an Employee living in Bangalore.

I ordered more brushes and cleaning supplies to finish the bathroom cleaning from Amazon.

Today more than five-hundred people in the USA died today from the virus.

I picked a mix of one hymn in Spanish and English: Santo Santo Santo – Holy Holy Holy. Methodist Hymnal #64 and #65.

Day 238: Saturday Excitement

Today Susie went to Mox Boarding House in Portland, Oregon, and played Scooby Doo’s Betrayal at Mystery Mansion. The staff was happy to finally meet Mrs. Wild. They have seen Evan and me there most weekends from the opening day. We had a late lunch and dessert.

You can see the rainbow in the clouds in Portland

Susie used her walker to get from the car to the Mox, a long-distance for her. She used the chair in the walker, and I pushed her the rest of the way in the store. The longest she has walked in a while and a long walk for her after the stroke. You can see her struggle to move the right leg, but it was doing better this afternoon.

Tatyana and Marlyn were our bartender and waiter, respectively, in the afternoon. They were so happy to see Susie and to serve Evan, Susan, and me. I have mentioned Susie before, and they were finally happy to meet her.

Tatyana and Marlyn’s shift ended, they are the morning bunch, and a new guy Charles got us dessert. I pay the morning tab for Tatyana and Marlyn and a new tab for the late guys with dessert and coffee, usually. I like to give out tips to both folks.

We headed home about 6ish. Portland was quiet for us.

But, Portland exploded with noise this morning when Biden was declared President-elect. The riots were replaced with dancing and music. Our Darth Vader, unicycle riding, kilted, and bagpiper player was circling the streets playing This Land is Your Land. Last I saw, they are still dancing in Portland in Pioneer Place. It is a weird place, and I like it here.

Susie’s morning was languid. I had to help her get moving and to be safe. Getting ready for Mox was slow, and we rescheduled with Evan to be there an hour later. Strokes are like that. The ability to move will come and go. We will just keep moving.

I also received a new book today, Seven of Infinities by Aliette de Bodard. She is one of my favs and this is a novelette. The book is signed by her and limited to a special 1500 numbered printing from Subterranean Press of Burton, Michigan. There is a kindle version that is not limited if you want to read it.

I was thinking of my father and grandfather today. I got out a bun and put in a cold hot dog into the bun. I then rolled it up in a single sheet of paper towel just like I remember they did in all those microwave demonstrations so very long ago. I set the microwave for thirty seconds, put the bundle in the center of the microwave, closed it, and then started the machine. A moment later, after that loud humming, I then pulled out a cooked hot dog with a now steamed bun. Even the smell was the same from forty years ago. I put on some plain yellow mustard and enjoyed a memory. Exactly the same every time.

Don’t get me wrong, I am so glad I went into computers and not sales! But, once and a while, I slide back to these days when a microwave was a big sale. I remember making a hot dog and having the customer watch as a little kid cooked lunch for him and his sister. Nobody stopped us from this and likely encouraged us. We likely sold a few ourselves without trying. We just wanted lunch.

My 401K is now showing an 11%+ growth rate for this terrible year of 2020.

Today, in the USA, the reports show more than one-thousand thirty people passed away from the virus. The infection rate continues to explode. I was told that Mox and other Portland-based businesses will be more locked-down next week.

I went with This Land is Your Land as I was inspired by our own unicycle bag pipe player.

Day 237: Safe Friday

I put in a leave request and was on paid-time-off as I cared for Susie today.

I started again about 6ish as I had to email my boss and colleagues at Nike that I was out again today. I tried to go slow and clean-up a few things and help Susie.

Susie is walking slower, and I stayed with her all day. She is afraid to be left alone in the house now. I cleared off the floor and picked up a bit today. I will do more each day.

I add chili from a can for lunch. Susie was up about 11ish. I had to do laundry and dishes. Susie had oatmeal to start. She is starting new meds, I am being watchful.

I got the bed remade and read for a bit and finished a book I did not care for, The Doors of Eden. It is not bad for SciFi to read as the story swings from being told by one person and then another.

I spoke to Evan and we agreed to meet with Susie at Mox around noonish. I will bring the Scooby-doo Betrayal at Mystery Mansion board game. I have just started finished the figures for it.

I left them cartoon bright. I painted the base to match the color in the game assigned to the meddling kid. We will also have Architects of the West Kingdom to play.

I baked potatoes for dinner. I fried bacon. I then broke up the bacon over the cooked split potatoes and covered well with shredded cheddar cheese. Just add a spoonful of sour cream. Susie like it, she had two potatoes.

I discovered a new series to watch on Prime: Truth Seekers. It is a cable guy that also investigates ghosts. This time he starts to find them, and they are not friendly! So far, it has been fun–I watched three episodes so far. The Hunt series is also good, but it is very dark, and I wanted something lighter. The Truth Seekers is a bit on the horror side.

Today it was reported that more than twelve-hundred people died from the virus in the USA.

I have done this song a lot, but it just seemed to be the right song: Lift Every Voice and Sing with all the counting.

Day 236: Return Home for Susie

Today we came home. We received lots of instructions on what to do after Susie’s stroke.

I was up at 6:30ish and made it to the hospital about 8:20ish while Susie was still eating her breakfast. I had stopped on my way to McDonald’s for breakfast.

Today I am tired, and there is not a lot to cover. We talked to the doctor and nurses. Susie’s heart is fine and did not cause the stroke. Susie has some new prescriptions to try to prevent a stroke.

Susie had lunch in her hospital room. I slipped out to Happy Panda and got lunch. I had to eat it in the car; there is no dining in there.

Susie finished-up her lunch, and then they helped her dress and wheeled her out. I met her with the car out front. There we bumped into an old friend, Dr. Busby, at the entrance to the hospital. Dr. Busby is a retired plastic surgeon who helped Susie repeatedly when we had skin and other cancers. He was thrilled to see her.

We finally reached home. The leaves covered the driveway, and Susie had trouble walking through them with the walker. We managed to get inside. Susie is much slower but can walk. Her right leg struggles to move forward.

Susie walked to the bathroom and really struggled. I moved the exercise bike and other items out of the way and got her cane. She finally made it and back. It is slow going.

I felt she was able to be alone for a short period. I go get the prescriptions and pizzas for tonight. It is Thursday Night Football tonight. Mariah is coming over to watch the 49ers and the Cheese-heads.

I get the new meds and then the pizzas. I return home and Susie is still good.

Flowers from Lidrich’s came to the house today.

We watch election news. We switch to the NFL when Mariah appears. I cooked all the pizzas while we watched the election news. So dinner is ready. Mariah and I finish a half bottle of Purple Cow wine. I have just one glass—none for Susie. Alcohol is not a good idea for some having trouble walking!

The 49ers are crushed. Before the game is over, Mariah and I take out the recycling and trash.

I will need to help Susie tonight as her walking is unsteady. It is good to be home, and we begin the journey of recovery together.

The US stock market flew-up on the belief of a Democratic president-elect and Republican-controlled Senate is good for the market. The Fed warned of tough-times ahead; the Fed will keep interest rates near zero and is also pressing for a stimulus package.

More than eleven-hundred twenty people died from the virus today in the USA. The infection rate reached record levels in the USA.

I picked my most favorite hymn for today, This Is My Song (Finlandia). This is Methodist Hymnal #437, and my favorite version is here.

Day 234-235: Election and Stroke

Susie is resting well in our local hospital, St. Vincennes, in the stroke ward. Susie had a small stroke on Monday-Tuesday that impaired her ability to walk. Corwin had to carry her into the car as she could not walk, even with her walker, to the car. We had called in the problem to her doctor, and they said to get to the ER now. We had first thought she was weak and got her water and coffee, and Corwin even fixed her scrambled eggs.

The trip to the hospital in Air Volvo is always hard when you are so worried and have to drive. I tried to drive fast, in Oregon, and with care. It is also the first rainy day in a while. Highway 26 was slow; there was a wreck, someone rear-ended another car on the wet roads on 26. I tried again to be calm.

Corwin came with us as we might need his help. We called ahead and learned the procedure for non-Corvid-19 emergencies. Corwin would return by Lyft as only one person was allowed with Susie in the hospital. I got help to get Susie out of the car, and we started into the process.

We waited for more than an hour to get a room in the ER. It is bustling. We then waited for about another two hours. Suddenly there were lots of people, and Susie was headed to x-ray. The staff was worried that Susie would stroke-out. Her blood pressure was a bit high. They missed her veins, and another IV failed. They put an IV in her neck. The joke was that it was so close to Halloween that neck bites were in. They then could get the contrast. The CAT scans showed no bleeding or stroke.

Susie had an infection and was too weak to send home, so they sent her to room 629 in the stroke ward. An MRI was done at midnight, and this was followed by bloodwork at 4AM. Susie got no sleep. At 10ish, we learned that Susie has a small stroke.

About 11ish on Tuesday as Susie get a room in the stroke ward

Once the diagnosis was known, the stroke floor started to check Susie regularly that she was not getting worse and got her some physical therapy. Many doctors visited, and there are lots of help being provided once we leave the hospital.

We agreed for Susie to spend one more night. It was safer for us.

I will be back on Thursday morning to get the results of some more tests and to wrap up her stay, and plan her return to the Volvo Cafe (home).

I am tired, and I will stop here. The Smith Family sent these flowers–Susie loves flowers.

I picked this video from India, one of Susie’s favorite hymns. Susie and Barb would make new words for it: Up From The Grave He Arose.